As we were driving home from church today:
Trustin "What did you learn about in church today?"
Zeke "sciptures"
Trustin "Oh scriptures?"
Zeke "scipture stories... are true"
Trustin "The scriptures are true?"
Zeke "dep"
And another sweet story that I forgot to post about but that I want to remember:
About a week after Ashlynn was born Trustin decided to give Zeke a blessing to help him with all of changes of a new baby and living in a hotel. After the blessing Zeke asked Trustin to give Mommy and Ashes blessings too. In the middle of blessing Ashlynn Trustin feels an extra little hand on Ashlynn's head. I held his hands back for the rest of the blessing but shortly afterwards Zeke walks over to Ashlynn and put both of his hands on her head again. A bit confused on priesthood authority, but what a sweet little cutie.
Sunday, August 14, 2011
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Monday, August 8, 2011
Life in a Hotel-House
So life around here is about the same. We are still living in our lovely hotel and expect that it will be another two weeks or so before we are finally home. We call this our "hotel house" and when we talk about our real house Zeke always said "my house broken." It is kind of cute and kind of sad. The good news is that I think we've been here long enough that Zeke doesn't seem to feel homesick anymore. There is a field with several "digger trucks" to watch digging and in the parking lot there are a plethora of fire hydrants to walk by every day. To Zeke nothing quite says happiness like a fire hydrant, although a fire truck is even better!
Trustin's parents came down for a couple days and Zeke had a ball with them.
Ashlynn thought this all was so exciting...
And then there is this silly nut.
He is still silly.
He likes to play Hide-and-Zeke. But he's a bit confused. When somebody else hides he pretends not to know where they are hiding (hmm, I think kids are smarter than we think, because I know where he picked up that habit.). But it is even cuter when he hides. When we finish counting rather than stay hidden he quickly jumps out to scare us.
When he is looking for something or someone, hide and seek or regular lost item moments, he calls out "Are Woody?" "Are Mommy?" etc. or he asks "Where Mommy are?"
He used to say "dah" for "yes," now he says "dep."
Trustin tried to play "lava" with him last night. We didn't think Zeke had any clue what lava was but when Daddy said that the carpet was lava Zeke burst into tears. Trustin amended it to luke warm lava and showed Zeke how to throw his blanket onto the carpet so he could stand on that to rescue toys. Zeke would stand on the blanket and then walk on the carpet pick up the toy, and the blanket and bring them back to the bed. He thought the lava game was great.
So that is our latest in a nutshell. I've had lots of time to work on my schoolwork (crazy what you can get done when you don't have a house to maintain...maybe this hotel thing, with maid service really isn't too bad), Trustin keeps busy at work and then the rest of the time we are playing with two cutie kids. Life is good.
Trustin's parents came down for a couple days and Zeke had a ball with them.
For FHE last week we took Zeke to a nearby carousel that is free during the summer. Thanks to Zeke's first visit to Panda Express the week before Zeke's favorite animal to ride was the Panda, although "White Max" a white horse, made a close second.
Ashlynn thought this all was so exciting...
So our little lady is growing out of control. If the scale in our friendly Marriott weight room is to be believed she is close to 10 pounds! So she has gained about a pound a week. Apparently my milk is good stuff. I love kissing her little pudgy cheeks! Ashlynn has very expressive eyebrows sometimes. When I kiss her she often opens her eyes really wide and raises her eyebrows like "whoa, what was that?!" And I sat with the camera pointed at her face for several minutes trying vainly to capture one of her silliest faces on film. Since I didn't succeed, you'll have to imagine it for now: she goes a little bit cross eyed and puckers her lips, too cute!
This is another popular face around here: She sticks her tongue out all the time, kind of like she is tasting the air.
And then there is this silly nut.
He is still silly.
He likes to play Hide-and-Zeke. But he's a bit confused. When somebody else hides he pretends not to know where they are hiding (hmm, I think kids are smarter than we think, because I know where he picked up that habit.). But it is even cuter when he hides. When we finish counting rather than stay hidden he quickly jumps out to scare us.
When he is looking for something or someone, hide and seek or regular lost item moments, he calls out "Are Woody?" "Are Mommy?" etc. or he asks "Where Mommy are?"
He used to say "dah" for "yes," now he says "dep."
Trustin tried to play "lava" with him last night. We didn't think Zeke had any clue what lava was but when Daddy said that the carpet was lava Zeke burst into tears. Trustin amended it to luke warm lava and showed Zeke how to throw his blanket onto the carpet so he could stand on that to rescue toys. Zeke would stand on the blanket and then walk on the carpet pick up the toy, and the blanket and bring them back to the bed. He thought the lava game was great.
So that is our latest in a nutshell. I've had lots of time to work on my schoolwork (crazy what you can get done when you don't have a house to maintain...maybe this hotel thing, with maid service really isn't too bad), Trustin keeps busy at work and then the rest of the time we are playing with two cutie kids. Life is good.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
A Genuine Vampire Hunter
Just a quick post to highlight a moment of my morning yesterday.
I met a vampire hunter. A real one. Or so he insisted.
It all began as we waited outside the library. Ashlynn was sleeping away in her carseat with a cotton car-seat canopy covering her up. A man approached/reproached me for not letting my child breathe.
You see, he was a vampire hunter, he knows these things. He lives underground and he built his home with vents so he can breathe. He is a professional mathmetician, that is how he knew how to built it. You could be standing right on top of him and never know it, but he can breathe because of the vents. He can't see anything like that on Ashlynn's carseat, so naturally, he was very concerned.
Also, vampires are completely real. He has seen them and my children are potential targets. He has even written a 4 page paper on them. Whoa! They must be real; this is serious.
Thank you Mr. Vampire Hunter for making my day!
I met a vampire hunter. A real one. Or so he insisted.
It all began as we waited outside the library. Ashlynn was sleeping away in her carseat with a cotton car-seat canopy covering her up. A man approached/reproached me for not letting my child breathe.
You see, he was a vampire hunter, he knows these things. He lives underground and he built his home with vents so he can breathe. He is a professional mathmetician, that is how he knew how to built it. You could be standing right on top of him and never know it, but he can breathe because of the vents. He can't see anything like that on Ashlynn's carseat, so naturally, he was very concerned.
Also, vampires are completely real. He has seen them and my children are potential targets. He has even written a 4 page paper on them. Whoa! They must be real; this is serious.
Thank you Mr. Vampire Hunter for making my day!
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Grandma and Grandpa and a photo shoot
We had another great week. My parents came to visit and they were huge lifesavers. Zeke loved having them here and so did I. I got lots of naps, freezer meals, and ice cream, Zeke got lots of fun times and Trustin got two drawers full of Sun Chips and Doritos (he is a little addicted to chips) and chocolate milk. Plus we loved the company. There is nothing quite like having mom around.
Grandma and my sweet little Ashlynn.
The Grandpa Pool Monster
We had to put Ashlynn in a swimsuit too, just for fun. She was adorable, although I think whoever designed this swimsuit had never seen a baby before. It was the perfect length and about 3 times too wide.
Precious
Zeke really really really liked Grandma's blue socks. (He also likes his current bedroom: the closet. Yes, he really does love it. It was his request.)
As with Zeke, I had to have fun pretending to be a photographer. Here are a couple of the best ones I took. My skills are lacking, but she is BEAUTIFUL.
Zeke loves his little sister and he is extremely good at sharing.
Zeke had to make sure Ashylnn didn't forget her shaving cream.
Zeke loves to give Ashlynn loves. When he woke up from his nap yesterday he got out a couple toys and was about to start playing when he caught sight of Ashlynn on the couch. He immediately dropped the toys and bolted over to her and gave her a HUGE hug. It takes quite a bit of diligence to make sure his big hugs don't crush her with love. I am loving how much he loves her though. He always goes to her when she starts whimpering or crying so he can sing her a happy song or give her a love. He is the cutest big brother.
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Ashlynn
Here is our newest little one updated in pictures. She is such a perfect little girl and we are so blessed to have her. She is a really content little gal and sleeps better than a newborn. I truly believe Heavenly Father has divinely intervened a bit in that area knowing that a McKelle on no sleep couldn't quite handle the other stresses in our life right now. Most nights I actually end up waking her up because I'm nervous she'll starve. She had one night of waking up for the day at 1 AM but every night since has been great. When she is awake she loves to just look around and often chew on her hands. I have given her a self diagnosis of an allergy to breastmilk...at least it always results in the symptom of severe drowsiness from which there is almost no waking. It is such a battle to get her to drink more than 3 swallows before she is out.
When Zeke got to the hospital the morning after Ashlynn was born he was instantly ready for his role as the big brother. We wondered if he has understood what was coming in these last several months but he made it instantly clear that he wasn't the least bit confused. He walked into the room and we showed him Ashlynn and asked him if he knew who this baby was. He said (with a voice that said it was so obvious) "Baby Ashes" and then pointed at me and said "out Mommy's tummy" and then pointed up (Heaven). He quickly climbed up onto my hospital bed and said "Carry Ashes and tried to grab her out of my arms and hold her. It was so sweet how much he already loved her.
My favorite thing about watching the two of them interact this last week is Zeke's singing. Zeke will occassionally sing songs, but never if you ask him to. That is until Ashlynn was born. Now anytime we say "Zeke will you sing Ashlynn a wake up song?" he starts singing. It is adorable. He also loves to pretend to eat her toes, nose, hair, etc. (this game has lately been a favorite with Mom and Dad and he quickly introduce Ashlynn to the fun). I am trying to post videos of both of these on facebook and I personally recommend watching them if you like cuteness.
Our happy little family
Daddy's girl
Whoa she looks tiny in there
This is my good friend Kendra. She is amazing and a lifesaver! She and her husband watched Zeke while we were at the hospital, let us live in her house when disaster struck, and has helped out so much with Zeke and Ashlynn. She also bought me my favorite ice cream. Double brownie points.
It is still hard to say for sure who Ashlynn looks like. We think she looks a lot like Zeke did as a newborn and there are a few features we can pinpoint. Her hands definately came from my Mom. Long long long fingers and nail beds (although you can't really even tell from this picture). So beautiful.
Her tiny head can't really keep on any of the headbands we had access too this week.
Cutie!
Kisses
I already can't get enough of her! Especially when her eyes are open!
Ashlynn's birth story
This post is pretty much the complete birth story, to help me remember it all. As such it is really long and perhaps a bit over detailed for a casual blog follower. Just a warning.
At my doctor’s appointment on Monday morning (the 11th) they told me that I was almost dilated to a three and then on Tuesday I lost my mucus plug, so I was starting to get hopeful that Ashlynn would be here this week. We spent most of Wednesday just like a normal day. Zeke and I walked to the park in the morning and I spent about an hour running around the baseball diamond chasing an imaginary baseball (we forgot to bring our real baseball and ball but that didn’t stop Zeke; he was thrilled to jump up and swing his arms and congratulate himself “nice catch!” and then throw it to me. After catching it we had to “run base”). Then there was a grocery trip, lunch, Zeke took a nap and I read a book. All without any discomfort or pain.
Finally at 4:00 I finally started to feel contractions that had any sort of resemblance to pain. I sent Trustin a text that said “some of these puppies are starting hurt, wahoo!” and he texted back “Wahooo!” Not wanting him to get overly excited I told him that my pain wasn’t enough for a wahoo with three o’s. But naturally the moment I sent that they started to get a bit more wahooo worthy. This was about 4:20ish. When Zeke woke up I turned on a movie for us to watch so that I could sit on the love sac and begin my official “relaxing” that I’d been preparing for lately. I called my mom to tell her that I thought I might have a baby within the next day and my dad asked how far apart my contractions were. I had no clue because I never had my timer ready to go before a contraction started and Trustin wasn’t home from work yet to help. (Due to this my dad told my mom he was worried I would have a home birth because I had no idea if I was in labor…I think he should have given me that warning too because he was far too close to being right!) I also called my friend Kendra who had agreed to watch Zeke when we went to the hospital. She said that she would already be over in our side of town around 7 or 7:30 and I told her that that should be a good time to come pick Zeke up.
I never made it back downstairs to watch the movie with Zeke because contractions kept starting before I got up and went downstairs. Rather I just lay on the bed or the floor and tried to relax. Relaxing was not easy but I realized that the contractions really were far less painful when I managed to make myself fully relax. So I tried my best, and was sometimes successful. When Trustin got home he was able to help me relax better than I’d been managing on my own. He was such a lifesaver talking me through relaxing, telling me that I could do it (that was the thing I most needed to hear) and massaging my lower back. I never could have done it without him! We still never got around to a really accurate timing of my contractions because I needed Trustin’s focus on helping me relax and then between contractions I sent him to load up our hospital stuff and pack Zeke’s bag (a detail I never thought about until I was in labor, oops).
There were many factors contributing to our confusion with labor. And yes, we were completely naïve. Here I was in labor and we had to look up at what point we should go to the hospital. The site we found said “contractions should be 2-5 minutes apart for several hours” and then we should call my doctor. Plus I had talked to many friends who said they had tried to bear with labor pains for as long as they could before going to the hospital and when they got to the hospital they were only a 3 or 4 and other friends that were in labor for 18 hours or even more. Plus in all of the things we’d been reading for labor prep there were three stages and the middle phase was many hours long. I had great plans for the movies I would watch, the relaxing(though painful) bath I would take, and I had made a long list of memories and places for Trustin to talk me through visualizing during the many hours of labor. So in my mind, labor was something that lasts a long time. Finally, I had heard that the hospital I was going to was notoriously busy and often time laboring mothers were left in triage for hours (a miserable looking place where up to 4 ladies could be stuck at one time…no thank you please). So even before labor began I was hoping to do as much of my enduring at home as possible.
Yet things were getting pretty much excruciating and it felt like there was hardly any time between contractions. There should have been a bell going off in my head at this point…but there wasn’t. In my head I was probably dilating at about a 4 or 5 and the fact that everything was so painful and felt so close together was simply my low pain tolerance talking. I was frustrated with myself for being such a wimp. Luckily Trustin was there to help me though it all. And Zeke was such a cute helper too. I was lying on the love sac and crying and Trustin told Zeke that Mommy had an owie. Zeke said “Mommy boo boo?” and gave me kisses. Then I discovered that it was helpful for me to crawl around on my hands and knees during contractions and Zeke thought it was great fun to crawl around too. Finally at around 6:40ish I started to think that I had better go to the hospital. I asked Trustin to call Kendra and ask her to come now rather than the original time we’d agreed to. Then I went in to the restroom. While I was sitting there my water broke. I thought “oh that’s really convenient, now we won’t have to worry about sending Trustin home from the hospital clean up wet carpet…there is irony in that, just wait.
Once my water broke, ouch! I called out for Trustin and by the time he got downstairs, still on the phone, I was lying on the bathroom floor crying, writhing, and beginning to yell a bit more than I care to admit. In all of our labor practicing (I used to relax with my hands or feet in buckets of ice water so that I was learning to ignore the pain) I envisioned myself in labor with intense pain but yet with me calmly relaxing through it with our relaxation techniques. I guess I underestimated the intensity of contractions. I wanted to be nice but I yelled “hang up the phone” which he did (nevermind that I told him to make that phonecall. We climbed in the car and started driving to the store where my friend’s husband works. I hadn’t known that I was a screamer, but I definitely had some volume on that ride. Not quite so dramatic as the ladies in movies (at least Trustin says I wasn’t so bad). I was in such a delimma, urging Trustin to drive as fast as he could and also hating the fast turns and bumbs etc. I was trying desperately to be nice to Trustin because he was my hero through everything so I was politely screaming “please drive smoother, please!” and “slow, slow, slow, please slow!!!” We got to the store and Trustin unbuckled Zeke’s carseat from the car (with Zeke still buckled to his seat) and ran the whole thing inside the store and left him just inside the door. He flew back to the car and we raced to the hospital. He only ran 1 red light.
We got to the hospital at 7:00 and Trustin put me in a wheelchair and rushed me upstairs. One nurse at the desk took one look at me and said “I’m just going to take her to a room.” Victory, I successfully evade triage; the secret : look like you are about to die of pain. The nurse said something about an epidural and I was so proud of myself that I loudly said “NO!” I don’t know how I managed that. They got me to the room and the nurse asked me to put on the gown. Before I could another contraction began and I dropped and started crawling on the floor and then lay down on my side on the hard wood floor. I was just praying that I was pretty dilated because I needed some justification for being quite so dramatic. When the contraction eased the nurse urged me to quickly put on the gown and hop on the bed so they could check me. She took one look at me and said “oh, there’s a baby right there.” Naturally my doctor hadn’t had time to get to the hospital and there was literally no time to wait. I didn’t care a bit. I thought “You nurses look competent, let’s just take care of this.” But there was another doctor who was there, Dr. Skinner and he came in in the nic of time to deliver my baby. The nurses kept urgin me to hold my breath and push and I kept remembering the things I’d read about this part of childbirth but it was difficult to get myself to do it. Trustin said “you are about to meet our baby” and that helped. All of this agony, and fear and pain was about to bring forth my little angel. I was so grateful that I was able to have the experience of pushing her out and even all of the misery of labor feels beautiful in my memory. I would go through that and so much more for my little Ashlynn or for my Zeke. I felt so blessed that my body was able to be the means of bringing this miracle into the world.
Ashlynn Kaydean Anderson was born at 7:13 on July 13th. She weighed 6 lbs 12 oz, was 19 ½ inches long and completely beautiful. They laid her down on my tummy right away and I fell in love. She was so tiny and precious and everything about her testified that she was sent straight from my Father in heaven. I love my little lady.
Not to dampen the mood but…
okay, that is a hokey pun, but I couldn’t resist. The story doesn’t end here. Ashlynn was about 10 minutes away from being born in the car, but that wasn’t enough excitement for us. At about 11:30 that night Trustin bolted up from frantically from his couch and gasped that he had to go home. He was apologizing profusely as he quickly explained and bolted out the door. So back up several hours to a wife in horrific pain crying on the lovesac: Trustin decided to start the bath water for me to lay in to see if that would ease some of the pain. As he went upstairs to turn on the tub I went to the restroom downstairs where moments later my water broke. In that frantic moment Trustin rushed down to my aid and then we were rushing to the hospital…meanwhile the bathtub was still rushing too.
So Trustin gets home at about midnight to see water pouring out of the garage. Part of the ceiling there had completely collapsed and upstairs the entire hallway, three bedrooms and the bathroom were soaked. Understatement. As of today the carpet has all been ripped up, there are about a million heavy duty fans going, the ceiling and walls of the garage, hall, and laundry room are being torn apart and the bottom foot of the walls upstairs as well. We thought Ashlynn needed to come home to new paint and carpet.
Our suite at the Marriot is not bad. I'm not saying I'd like to build a summer home here but the mini fridge is actually quite lovely.
This has been one crazy week!
also, Trustin has about a million pictures of our house and our beautiful daughter posted on facebook.
At my doctor’s appointment on Monday morning (the 11th) they told me that I was almost dilated to a three and then on Tuesday I lost my mucus plug, so I was starting to get hopeful that Ashlynn would be here this week. We spent most of Wednesday just like a normal day. Zeke and I walked to the park in the morning and I spent about an hour running around the baseball diamond chasing an imaginary baseball (we forgot to bring our real baseball and ball but that didn’t stop Zeke; he was thrilled to jump up and swing his arms and congratulate himself “nice catch!” and then throw it to me. After catching it we had to “run base”). Then there was a grocery trip, lunch, Zeke took a nap and I read a book. All without any discomfort or pain.
Finally at 4:00 I finally started to feel contractions that had any sort of resemblance to pain. I sent Trustin a text that said “some of these puppies are starting hurt, wahoo!” and he texted back “Wahooo!” Not wanting him to get overly excited I told him that my pain wasn’t enough for a wahoo with three o’s. But naturally the moment I sent that they started to get a bit more wahooo worthy. This was about 4:20ish. When Zeke woke up I turned on a movie for us to watch so that I could sit on the love sac and begin my official “relaxing” that I’d been preparing for lately. I called my mom to tell her that I thought I might have a baby within the next day and my dad asked how far apart my contractions were. I had no clue because I never had my timer ready to go before a contraction started and Trustin wasn’t home from work yet to help. (Due to this my dad told my mom he was worried I would have a home birth because I had no idea if I was in labor…I think he should have given me that warning too because he was far too close to being right!) I also called my friend Kendra who had agreed to watch Zeke when we went to the hospital. She said that she would already be over in our side of town around 7 or 7:30 and I told her that that should be a good time to come pick Zeke up.
I never made it back downstairs to watch the movie with Zeke because contractions kept starting before I got up and went downstairs. Rather I just lay on the bed or the floor and tried to relax. Relaxing was not easy but I realized that the contractions really were far less painful when I managed to make myself fully relax. So I tried my best, and was sometimes successful. When Trustin got home he was able to help me relax better than I’d been managing on my own. He was such a lifesaver talking me through relaxing, telling me that I could do it (that was the thing I most needed to hear) and massaging my lower back. I never could have done it without him! We still never got around to a really accurate timing of my contractions because I needed Trustin’s focus on helping me relax and then between contractions I sent him to load up our hospital stuff and pack Zeke’s bag (a detail I never thought about until I was in labor, oops).
There were many factors contributing to our confusion with labor. And yes, we were completely naïve. Here I was in labor and we had to look up at what point we should go to the hospital. The site we found said “contractions should be 2-5 minutes apart for several hours” and then we should call my doctor. Plus I had talked to many friends who said they had tried to bear with labor pains for as long as they could before going to the hospital and when they got to the hospital they were only a 3 or 4 and other friends that were in labor for 18 hours or even more. Plus in all of the things we’d been reading for labor prep there were three stages and the middle phase was many hours long. I had great plans for the movies I would watch, the relaxing(though painful) bath I would take, and I had made a long list of memories and places for Trustin to talk me through visualizing during the many hours of labor. So in my mind, labor was something that lasts a long time. Finally, I had heard that the hospital I was going to was notoriously busy and often time laboring mothers were left in triage for hours (a miserable looking place where up to 4 ladies could be stuck at one time…no thank you please). So even before labor began I was hoping to do as much of my enduring at home as possible.
Yet things were getting pretty much excruciating and it felt like there was hardly any time between contractions. There should have been a bell going off in my head at this point…but there wasn’t. In my head I was probably dilating at about a 4 or 5 and the fact that everything was so painful and felt so close together was simply my low pain tolerance talking. I was frustrated with myself for being such a wimp. Luckily Trustin was there to help me though it all. And Zeke was such a cute helper too. I was lying on the love sac and crying and Trustin told Zeke that Mommy had an owie. Zeke said “Mommy boo boo?” and gave me kisses. Then I discovered that it was helpful for me to crawl around on my hands and knees during contractions and Zeke thought it was great fun to crawl around too. Finally at around 6:40ish I started to think that I had better go to the hospital. I asked Trustin to call Kendra and ask her to come now rather than the original time we’d agreed to. Then I went in to the restroom. While I was sitting there my water broke. I thought “oh that’s really convenient, now we won’t have to worry about sending Trustin home from the hospital clean up wet carpet…there is irony in that, just wait.
Once my water broke, ouch! I called out for Trustin and by the time he got downstairs, still on the phone, I was lying on the bathroom floor crying, writhing, and beginning to yell a bit more than I care to admit. In all of our labor practicing (I used to relax with my hands or feet in buckets of ice water so that I was learning to ignore the pain) I envisioned myself in labor with intense pain but yet with me calmly relaxing through it with our relaxation techniques. I guess I underestimated the intensity of contractions. I wanted to be nice but I yelled “hang up the phone” which he did (nevermind that I told him to make that phonecall. We climbed in the car and started driving to the store where my friend’s husband works. I hadn’t known that I was a screamer, but I definitely had some volume on that ride. Not quite so dramatic as the ladies in movies (at least Trustin says I wasn’t so bad). I was in such a delimma, urging Trustin to drive as fast as he could and also hating the fast turns and bumbs etc. I was trying desperately to be nice to Trustin because he was my hero through everything so I was politely screaming “please drive smoother, please!” and “slow, slow, slow, please slow!!!” We got to the store and Trustin unbuckled Zeke’s carseat from the car (with Zeke still buckled to his seat) and ran the whole thing inside the store and left him just inside the door. He flew back to the car and we raced to the hospital. He only ran 1 red light.
We got to the hospital at 7:00 and Trustin put me in a wheelchair and rushed me upstairs. One nurse at the desk took one look at me and said “I’m just going to take her to a room.” Victory, I successfully evade triage; the secret : look like you are about to die of pain. The nurse said something about an epidural and I was so proud of myself that I loudly said “NO!” I don’t know how I managed that. They got me to the room and the nurse asked me to put on the gown. Before I could another contraction began and I dropped and started crawling on the floor and then lay down on my side on the hard wood floor. I was just praying that I was pretty dilated because I needed some justification for being quite so dramatic. When the contraction eased the nurse urged me to quickly put on the gown and hop on the bed so they could check me. She took one look at me and said “oh, there’s a baby right there.” Naturally my doctor hadn’t had time to get to the hospital and there was literally no time to wait. I didn’t care a bit. I thought “You nurses look competent, let’s just take care of this.” But there was another doctor who was there, Dr. Skinner and he came in in the nic of time to deliver my baby. The nurses kept urgin me to hold my breath and push and I kept remembering the things I’d read about this part of childbirth but it was difficult to get myself to do it. Trustin said “you are about to meet our baby” and that helped. All of this agony, and fear and pain was about to bring forth my little angel. I was so grateful that I was able to have the experience of pushing her out and even all of the misery of labor feels beautiful in my memory. I would go through that and so much more for my little Ashlynn or for my Zeke. I felt so blessed that my body was able to be the means of bringing this miracle into the world.
Ashlynn Kaydean Anderson was born at 7:13 on July 13th. She weighed 6 lbs 12 oz, was 19 ½ inches long and completely beautiful. They laid her down on my tummy right away and I fell in love. She was so tiny and precious and everything about her testified that she was sent straight from my Father in heaven. I love my little lady.
Not to dampen the mood but…
okay, that is a hokey pun, but I couldn’t resist. The story doesn’t end here. Ashlynn was about 10 minutes away from being born in the car, but that wasn’t enough excitement for us. At about 11:30 that night Trustin bolted up from frantically from his couch and gasped that he had to go home. He was apologizing profusely as he quickly explained and bolted out the door. So back up several hours to a wife in horrific pain crying on the lovesac: Trustin decided to start the bath water for me to lay in to see if that would ease some of the pain. As he went upstairs to turn on the tub I went to the restroom downstairs where moments later my water broke. In that frantic moment Trustin rushed down to my aid and then we were rushing to the hospital…meanwhile the bathtub was still rushing too.
So Trustin gets home at about midnight to see water pouring out of the garage. Part of the ceiling there had completely collapsed and upstairs the entire hallway, three bedrooms and the bathroom were soaked. Understatement. As of today the carpet has all been ripped up, there are about a million heavy duty fans going, the ceiling and walls of the garage, hall, and laundry room are being torn apart and the bottom foot of the walls upstairs as well. We thought Ashlynn needed to come home to new paint and carpet.
Our suite at the Marriot is not bad. I'm not saying I'd like to build a summer home here but the mini fridge is actually quite lovely.
This has been one crazy week!
also, Trustin has about a million pictures of our house and our beautiful daughter posted on facebook.
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